When it comes to anal sex, the right lubricant can make all the difference in ensuring comfort, safety, and pleasure. But, unlike the vagina, the rectum doesn’t produce its natural lubrication.
This makes it essential to choose an anal lubricant that enhances smoothness and reduces friction during anal sex. Plus, the anal walls are relatively thin. Hence, lubricants keep them hydrated and slippery and can greatly reduce the chance of anal injuries, such as cuts and tears (anal fissures) that increase your risk of contracting Sexually Transmitted Infections.
But with so many options on the market, from water-based to silicone-based, it can be tricky to know which one works best for your body and needs.
So here’s a detailed breakdown of various types of lubes to help you find the most effective one for anal intercourse based on preferences and safety.
Why lube is essential for anal sex?
Unlike the vagina or penis, the anus often doesn’t provide adequate natural lubrication during sex. So, applying lubrication during foreplay for a relaxing effect, during anal intercourse itself, or while you’re using anal sex toys helps reduce friction, making the experience more comfortable and enjoyable for both partners.
Lubricants create a smooth barrier, which makes the insertion process easier and more pleasurable. Without sufficient lubrication, the sensitive tissues in the anus may become torn or bruised, potentially leading to pain or other complications.
Additionally, lubricants help to maintain the right level of moisture throughout, making the experience more comfortable and ensuring safe, enjoyable anal play.
Best lube for anal intercourse: Our top choices
1. Water-based lubricants
Water-based lubricants are the most common choice for anal sex, as they are easy to clean and compatible with most sex toys and condoms. These lubricants provide a smooth, natural feel and are less likely to cause irritation.
However, because the body absorbs water very easily, even the best water-based lube tends to dry out quickly and needs to be re-applied fairly regularly.
The key benefits include the lack of the non-edible silicone taste and slippery texture you might experience during oral sex, and it’s perfectly toy-friendly. Not to mention, water-based lubes are often a cheaper alternative and, therefore, come in more generous quantities.
We suggest taking a look at Durex Play Strawberry for thrilling warming sensations, Durex Play Very Cherry for cherry-flavored, fruity fun, and Durex Play Feel More for a classic water-soluble formula that helps make sex feel even smoother.
2. Silicone-Based lubricants
Silicon-based lubricants are commonly recommended for anal intercourse due to their long-lasting slickness and endurance. They don’t dry out quickly, so you can go on and on without reapplying, making the anal experience one to cherish for a while.
While they are condon-safe, they are difficult to clean and tend to stain sheets or any fabric they come in contact with, lingering on surfaces (and body parts).
One of our best lubes for anal sex is Durex Maxima Lube, that’s silicon-based for a naturally smooth experience. It is specially formulated to enhance touch and comfort between you and your partner and is perfect for those weekends when you don’t have commitments to tend to right away.
3. Massage lubricants
Massage lubricants are made from natural oils and provide a relaxing, smooth feel for anal sex.
They tend to last longer than water-based lubricants, have moisturizing benefits, and are perfect for people who want to start with a little rubdown and teasing foreplay, then enter the anal pleasure stage with ease.
Our Durex Lubes Play Massage Gel 2-in-1 Sensual is a condom-friendly lube that contains a water-soluble formula for long sensual massage and sensual experience. On the other hand, our Durex Massage Lube Guarana can create an arousing experience due to its exciting fragrance - however, it’s only compatible with latex and polyisoprene condoms.
