You might have never considered embracing and imposing your dominance in relationships, but why not try to be dominant in the bedroom? If the notion of using whips and restraints doesn’t appeal to you, there are other ways to experiment with asserting your dominance in the bedroom.
Here are 4 simple ways to dominate in the bedroom while simultaneously igniting passion in your partner:
1. Put on your most alluring outfit
Boost your confidence and seriously turn on your partner’s desire by putting on your most enticing outfit, preferably lingerie. Dressing up empowers you with sensuality and gives you the self-assuredness to fulfill your desires and be dominant in bed.
Compliment your outfit and looks by putting on your favorite high heels and wearing the most captivating shade of lipstick for an irresistible Sex Goddess allure he won't resist.
2. Tease him
If you man entertains the notion, if only briefly, that he might be denied access to you, it significantly heightens his desire to get you.
Once you have put on your sexy lingerie, gently bind his hands with a ribbon or to the bed frame. Proceed to undress him slowly and seductively, all the while sensually blowing near his earlobes.
Maintain a peaceful silence and resist the urge to kiss or caress his body, even if he expresses the desire for it. Continue to exhale warm breath from your mouth along his neck, chest, and between his thighs.
The combination of being unable to touch or embrace you, coupled with the sensation of your breath and the sight of you in provocative lingerie, is certain to make him go crazy. Not only will this turn you on, but it will also make you more dominant in bed.
3. Let him know what you want
We often prioritize pleasing our partners and ensuring their enjoyment and sexual satisfaction. However, this time, it’s all about you! Discuss your fantasies with your partner beforehand, and determine if they are open to exploring them. Once you receive their approval, you can indulge and enjoy fully.
Whether you desire him to perform an extended session of oral sex or wish to incorporate a new intimate sex toy, communicate your preferences to him confidently and seductively.
Expressing your desires with conviction will empower you and set you on the path to achieving climax. Moreover, for him, hearing your passionate requests like "I yearn for your touch on my breasts" or "Let me tie you” is sure to make him as hard as a rock!
4. Get on top
One of the easiest ways to be dominant in bed is to adopt a sex position where you take control. Try using the positions where you are on top of him instead of the usual positions where your man is on top of you, such as missionary.
The Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl positions offer fantastic opportunities to straddle your partner from above, allowing you to control the rhythm, pace, and penetration depth.
Another empowering position involves you straddling your partner while they sit on a chair or sofa, limiting their movement and giving you the authority to guide the proceedings.
It's essential to remember that sex should be enjoyable and mutually satisfying, so ensure that both you and your partner are comfortable with everything before you start.
