Shower sex looks famously awesome in movies; people are wet, covered in soap, and have steamy hands and butt prints on the glass. Yes, IRL, sex in the shower isn’t all that simple. 

There’s something undeniably sensual and exciting about showering with your partner—the cascading water, the steam, the delicious aromas wafting through the air, and the spanking-clean, naked skin are total aphrodisiacs.

But let’s be real: while the idea of shower sex is thrilling, making it truly enjoyable requires the right shower sex positions, products, and other tidbits to get your rub-a-dub on safely and sexily.

Balancing passion and practicality can be tricky in a slippery, confined space, but with the right techniques and ideas, shower sex can be an intensely pleasurable and steamy experience. 

Whether you’re looking for something intimate, adventurous, or deeply passionate, this guide will introduce you to the best shower sex positions to make every encounter unforgettable.

Best sex positions to do in the shower

The best positions for sex in the shower really depend on your shower. Those with compact stand-up showers may be confined to standing positions. 

A shower/tub combo allows for sitting on the tub floor or propping a leg on the ledge. Showers with built-in benches or space for one provide even more possibilities.

Remember that the most important thing about choosing a shower sex position is “safety.” 

Here are some of the best and safest shower sex positions that ensure you emerge from that shower clean, unhurt, and glowing.

1. Standing doggy style

The standing doggy style or the bent-over-bather, as the name suggests, is the position that lets the receiving partner bend over at the waist so that the giving partner can enter from behind in a standing doggie position, holding the receiver steady with their hands on their hips. Plus, this position works for both vaginal and anal sex and is good for hitting the G-Spot. 

2. One leg up

The one leg up, sometimes known as Captain Morgan, is the sex position that sees the receiver stand with one leg bent, elevated on the edge of the tub or shower bench, while the giver kneels or squats between the receiver’s legs for easy access. If you don’t have anything to support the leg, have your partner use one hand to hold your leg up while they thrust.

3. Wraparound

The web wraparound sex position involves the receiver leaning back against the shower wall while the giver stands in front of them. Then, the receiving partner wraps one leg around their waist so the giver can penetrate them, finger them, or do pretty much whatever your heart (and body) desires. It definitely works best with a wall to prop yourself up against.

4. Hanging garden

The hanging garden sex position involves the giving partner picking and holding up the receiving partner in mid-air while the receiver wraps their legs around the giver’s waist. While this position can easily be a substitute for a workout, it’s worth the effort as it places both the participants face-to-face and feels ultra sexy with the water coming down around you both. 

5. Love chair

The love chair sex position, also known as the “hot seat,” involves the receiver sitting on their partner's lap in a reverse cowgirl style (facing away) while the giver sits on a shower bench. With the back pressed against their chest, you can drive the action or have them reach around and pleasure you from the front.  

Shower sex accessories

Even though shower sex is spontaneous, with a few advanced accessories, you’d set up for a safe and steamy experience. 

1. Non-slip mats

Non-slip mats make shower sex safer and more enjoyable by providing better grip and stability on slippery surfaces. 

They reduce the risk of slipping or falling, allowing partners to focus on pleasure instead of balance. With a firm footing, movements become more controlled and comfortable, making even adventurous positions easier and more satisfying in the shower.

2. Lubes

Lubricants, pleasure gels, or lubes enhance shower sex by compensating for water's tendency to wash away natural lubrication, preventing discomfort or friction. 

Silicone-based lubes are silky and slippery best, as they won’t rinse off easily. This ensures smooth, effortless movement, makes penetration easier, reduces irritation, and enhances overall pleasure, allowing for a more enjoyable and long-lasting experience in the shower.

3. Water-proof sex toys

Waterproof sex toys elevate the shower sex by adding extra stimulation and variety to the experience. They are designed to withstand water exposure, ensuring uninterrupted pleasure. 

Vibrators and suction-based toys enhance clitoral, G-Spot, or prostate stimulation, making intimacy more exciting and intense. With the warmth of water, they create a sensory-rich, steamy experience for both partners.