When it comes to intimacy, switching things up can take pleasure to a whole new level. One of the sexiest and most empowering ways to spice up your bedroom experience is by taking the lead—literally—by using on-top sex positions. 

These sexual positions aren’t just about dominance; it’s about control, connection, increased intimacy, enhanced performance, mutual orgasms, and unlocking new levels of pleasure for both you and your partner.

Whether you’re a first-timer looking to explore or someone wanting to perfect your technique, being on top offers countless benefits. It allows you to control the rhythm, depth, and intensity of each movement, making it a game-changer for pleasure. 

But let’s be real—it’s not always as effortless as it looks in the movies. Finding the right position, maintaining stamina, and feeling confident at the moment can sometimes feel like a challenge.

That’s where this guide comes in. We’ll dive into spicy and fun top-of-sex positions that you need to make being on top an unforgettable experience. So, let’s get started!

What are the top of sex positions?

Partner-on-top or on-top sex positions involve the receiving partner taking the top role, controlling the movement and rhythm. Penetration can be vaginal or anal and may involve the penis, fingers, vibrators, or any other sex toy. 

Best top of sex positions

Here are a few ways to rock the on-top sex routine:

1. Classic Cowgirl

The giver lies on their back, and the receiver kneels on top, sitting on them like they are riding a horse (hence the name), and find your rhythm. The receiver can relieve some of the weight from their partner's pelvis by leaning back and supporting themself on their thighs.

2. Reverse Cowgirl

This one’s just like the classic cowgirl, but the receiver faces the giver’s feet instead of their head. It not only allows for deep penetration but lets the receiver take control and show the giver the pace and rhythm they like.

3. The Face-off

The giver sits on a chair or bed; the receiver straddles them face to face while seated. The support and proximity allowed by sitting upright in a chair allow for a ton of skin-to-skin contact, and it's great for making out and passionate eye-gazing.

4. Cross-Booty

The giver enters the receiver from the missionary position, then moves their chest and legs off the receiver’s body to form an “X,” so their pelvis is in the same location.

5. The Seashell 

The receiver lies down on their back and raises their legs all the way up with their ankles up by their ears. The giver then gets on top and enters from a missionary position, holding themselves up with their arms that are outside of the receiver’s legs.