We have all thought about it, haven’t we? Having shower sex with your partner allows you to make it memorable by expressing deeper intimacy in private. 

But as sexy as it looks, it can be a lot trickier than having normal sex in a bed, couch, etc. However, fret not! We have compiled some tips about the dos and don’ts of shower sex to make it better, pleasurable, exciting, and enjoyable for both you and your partner. 

Do put the heating on

Seems absurd, doesn’t it? We must mentally and physically brace ourselves for a chill whenever the water stops during a warm shower. Similarly, encountering a cold blast of air is more probable when sharing the shower with your partner. 

To minimize the effect of the shock, preheat your bathroom; by that, you can retain some warmth should you briefly encounter cold water during your intimate experience. 

Don’t use soap as lube

Soaps are slippery, but it should be the last thing you want to deal with inside the bathroom. Slipping and sliding all over the place because of a soap bar is not a great sight for you or your partner. 

Moreover, soap, washes, sanitizer, shampoo, or conditioner are known to disturb the body's pH levels and harm your skin, which is not something you want to happen.

Do use the right lube

While we are on the topic of slippery, there’s no denying that using lubricants makes everything feel so much better, especially in the shower. 

You must be wondering that water is already wet and slippery; therefore, what’s necessary to use a lub? But that is the neat part, you do! Yes, the water is wet, but it is not wet and wild enough for good sex.

On that note, selecting the right shower lubricant involves a delicate balance. Whether you are opting for a water-based or silicone-based variety, the shower environment necessitates frequent reapplication of lubrication compared to dry settings. 

Note: Be mindful of any spills, and make sure to clean up any spills promptly. Lubricants don't mesh well with smooth surfaces like shower enclosures and bathtubs. 

Don’t try weird sex positions

While various sex positions can be used for different purposes, such as performance, intimacy, and mutual orgasm, it’s better to avoid trying out adventurous sex positions when you are in the shower. But ultimately, the decision rests with you. 

Do use condoms in the shower

Irrespective of the place or environment, safe sex by using a condom must be a priority. It can be difficult to put on the condom on a wet penis due to the risk of slipping off, so make sure you put it on before it gets wet. 

For sex in the shower, any of our condoms are suitable. Just ensure you have a secure yet comfortable fit before engaging in any sexual activity!

Don’t skimp on foreplay

Being in the shower doesn’t excuse skimping on foreplay. While you may be ready to mingle sooner, your partner might not be on the same page. 

Therefore, take some time to show her some extra affection before diving into the main event. Here are some of the best foreplay ideas to make the build-up just as enjoyable as the sex itself and to drive your partner wild.